Hayden’s Food Allergy Video

Wrann Family

Last week I received a text from our medical advisor stating that a family he works with created a video that I should see.   I looked it up on YouTube and was surprised to find that the family was one of our FAEN families. I immediately contacted Emily to ask her about the inspiration behind this video.  Below is our interview.  I believe that it is an excellent tool for teaching younger children about food allergies and what they can do to keep their friends with food allergies safe.   This family was able to keep it simple enough for children to understand without weighing them down with the difficulties of label-reading, labeling laws, and other issues.
I want to say a special thank you to Emily and her family for making a video that will benefit the entire food allergy community.  They want this video to used and shared.  Please support this family’s vision by leaving a comment here and by sharing their video.
Best,
Gina
First, can you tell me a little bit about you and your family.

My husband and I have been married for 14 years.  We live in the Ivoryton section of Essex, CT.  We have 3 kids; Chloe age 9, Hayden age 7 and Daphne age 4.  Hayden is the only one of our children with food allergies.  We’re a very active family.  We love to hike and fish.  In the summer we take lots of day trips to zoos, museums, beaches and parks.  We love to vacation in Disney World.

Can you tell me what inspired your family to create this video?

The inspiration for this video was the custom photo book I have been reading to Hayden’s class every year since he started school.  The voice-over was scripted by my brother based off of the book.  The message we hope to share with other kids is that food allergic children are normal kids who have to take simple precautions to keep safe.

Who do you hope will view this video?

We would be honored to see this video shared in elementary schools.  We kept the video fairly generic so that it would apply to most, if not all students who manage food allergies.  We don’t mention how severe or how minor a reaction can be.  We only mention that it could make someone sick.  In my experience, Hayden’s allergies at school have been very well received by his peers but I do worry that there are children who will keep their distance because they are scared they’ll make him sick or because he has a condition that makes him a little different.  When I have shared the photo book in the past I felt that it took the mystery out of medications and none of the children questioned why they are washing their hands again (and again!)  I have heard from parents of Hayden’s classmates that their children have reprimanded them for packing a snack that wasn’t safe for the classroom.  I’ve heard that their children have wondered aloud at the dinner table if something was safe for Hayden to eat.  Its aways great to hear that the children really absorb and  feel compassion for this condition.Part of the message is that classmates should tell a grown up if Hayden feels sick.  I think children at this age LOVE to be given a special job and they take is seriously.  During my presentation to the class I also pass around trainer Epipens (this year we’ll share the new Auvi-Q as well) so the children feel important, involved and are not afraid of the medication.  At the end of the school year I follow up with PAL awards and PAL pencils for each classmate to thank them for their vigilance and Protecting A Life (part of FAREs program online).

What has been the response?

We’ve had over 550 views on our video in 3 days.  I’ve received praise from doctors and numerous teachers.  It’s a wonderful feeling to think that this will not only help my son and his peers but that it could help others as well.  The videographer that volunteered his time to film this video said he was happy to take part in a project with a positive message.

 Would you recommend other families create their own video?

From a mothers perspective its a great keepsake of my family at this point in our life.  I am lucky enough to have a brother who is involved in the film industry as a hobby who was excited to take this project on.  After he had written the script we spent five hours filming and I’m sure he spent MANY hours editing.  Filming with kids produces MANY bloopers. I feel confident that we were sending a positive message and I think if others can do that it would be great!

What advice would you give them?

Think broadly if you want to help others.  Hayden avoids about 20 foods but we don’t mention those in the video.  Not only would it limit our audience but its irrelevant to my sons’ classmates.  (And there’s always my hope that he’ll outgrow one of his allergens before he outgrows the video!)

 Is there anything else you would like to share?

I’d love to see more positive messages about food allergies.  One of my pet peeves is when I hear people say their children ‘suffer’ from food allergies.  My son does not suffer.  My son ‘manages’ food allergies.  Does he have times of disappointment?  Sure.  But EVERY child has times of disappointment.  Is he physically uncomfortable because of his allergies?  Sometimes.  But we all have times like that.  That’s just life and this is the challenge we’ve been given.  And it’s okay.  Sometimes it’s hard but most of the time it’s okay.

Well said, Emily!!  I absolutely agree with you regarding the need for more positive messages about food allergies and you have certainly accomplished that with this video.  Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions and for creating this excellent resource.

9 responses

  1. I would love for this video to be shared with my son’s school/class. He is 8 years old. Sometimes a struggle with what the school officilas say they can ask other children adn parents to abide by. He is anaphylactic to airborne peanut, tree nuts, fish, shellfish, eggs and legumes. A daily struggle for us.

  2. Thank you for posting this well produced video. I appreciate your clear, personalized approach with the three important rules. As a school nurse, I have been looking for a video like this to share with my students. Thank you

  3. Loved your families’ video! Hayden looks like he is having a ball. Our school will be doing an allergy presentation. This might be a great video to share at the assembly.

  4. Love this video and think it’s great that the parents made it. I don’t think I will be showing it however, because we are not believers in just reading ingredients. Our allergist made a point of letting us know that many companies don’t label for cross contamination so we teach our kids that reading labels isn’t enough. We have to know what the companies policies are on labeling. Love and support to this family.

  5. As a father of three boys with multiple severe food allergies I want to thank you and your family for taking the time to make this positive video. The message cannot be shared enough.
    Jeff
    Tampa, Fl

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